Tom and I first "met" when he was five and I was four. His oldest brother and my oldest sister dated each other in high school and my brother would hang out with his brothers. I use to go over to his house with my brother and sister and I remember Tom as being this blonde head, bratty, little boy who would push me into spider webs and never share any of his toys. Eventually, our siblings went their separate ways and I didn't see Tom again until one day....

Tom had grown up going to public school. When it came time to graduate from high school, he had some friends that needed a graduation ticket for a friend of theirs, so she could go to the ceremony....

I had grown up going to private school. All of my neighborhood friends went to public school though, so when it came time for my friends to graduate from high school, I needed a ticket so I could go. None of them had any extra tickets, but they had a friend who did....

Back in our day (the late 70's) it was sort of a tradition at the local public high school, for seniors to throw water balloons at each other. My friends and I were driving around in my car, throwing water balloons at everyone we knew, when we pulled up next to a friend's car at a red light. It was the perfect opportunity to get them good with a water balloon, but when I looked over, who did I see? None other than Tom...but at the time I didn't know who he was. I just saw this cute guy and I froze with the water balloon in my hand. Everyone in my car started yelling to throw the water balloon at the same time everyone in our friend's car started yelling at Tom to roll up the window. We both reacted at the same time and my water balloon broke on the window that Tom got rolled half way up. Needless to say...Tom got a little bit wet...and then held up a graduation ticket as the light turned green and our friends drove away.
I did end up with the ticket and went to graduation but it wasn't until later in the summer that Tom started to do things with our group of friends. One night we were all coming back from the beach, when we started talking about birthdays. When I said my birthday was December 14th, Tom couldn't believe it because he said that's when his and his twin sister's birthday was. Something clicked in my head and I remember my mom telling me many years ago, that the "twins", who were the youngest siblings of the guy who my sister dated in high school, had the same birthday as me. All of a sudden, I started asking Tom questions, like if he had an older brother who's name was David and did he date this girl in high school named Pat? And did he have all of these brothers who hung out with a guy named Bob and did Pat and Bob bring their little sister over to his house and he would push her into spider webs, just to make her scream? He said yes to all of the above and then I told him that I was that little girl that he loved to torment so! Well, he apologized for his bad behavior and we started dating that summer. The rest, as they say, is history and within a couple of years, Tom and I were married.

 

    



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